The thought occurred to me when I saw my roommate’s American friend lounging in my living room with her Indian boyfriend while my roommate and her mom were in one room and I was in the other…apparently the American has come all the way to India to find love and so the two couldn’t take their hands off each other…
Now maybe I am a prude and old school…but a guy who can make out on a couch in a stranger’s living room with an elder in the next room can hardly be the right sort with whom you can even think of spending a part of your life leave alone a lifetime…
Unfortunately apparently that’s what guys are these days…while I am all in favor of sexual freedom and promiscuity…but when it comes to the man I would want to even consider spending my life with…I really hope he has a little more sophistication and sensibility then that…and also I guess, is more of a gentleman…
I have met men in the past who make it clear in the very first meeting that all they are interested in is a fling and nothing serious…take it or leave it…then the other who would get into anything only if they are actually interested and look forward to an actual relationship…then those who cant make up their minds, dont want to put in any effort…the worst are actually who fool around-don’t want to commit-leave the girl hanging by a hook…the first and second types are the honest types whether straight or complete rascals and are worth having around but the later two are the ones every girl who can think her weight’s worth should stay away from…trust me everyone deserves to be respected…
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